Saturday, August 29, 2009

Saturday or Sadderday.. You decide for me..

It was one fine day that was to turn into the most irritating and bad day of my life..
How did it happen?
Read on to know...

I was up early and I took up the great task of updating my blog about all the recent happenings and put on my thought process in an organised way here.. So I sat in front of my PC and took to hitting the keys to put my thoughts in words for all to see.. Mum asked me to help her in the household chores.. I told her I would as soon as I am finished with the blog.. So I kept producing one post after other and then took up the broom to clean up.. I had started the cleaning when the electrician arrived to check the inverter.. I wasn't aware of when he left and as I bolted the main door, I casually told Mum to close the main door the next time she moves from the living room to some other room and this started a heated argument between us.. I was too upset by her remark that I intentionally pick up a fight to try and escape from giving a helping hand.. As I was fuming and left the room, I was too upset and swore to do everything for myself.. Will cook for self, look after the laundry and my every other need and won't rely on her..

As I talked to my friend on net, I was too upset and started saying these things to him.. He took her side and then as I told him that I would wash my own clothes and cook my own food, I received a blatant reply from him that I don't talk about my mum like that.. I was irritated and said - 'lets talk about something else.. Or even better don't talk at all'.. To which he said - 'OK.. then lets not talk'.. And we exchanged angry byes and I signed out..

I didn't want him to take her side without knowing the entire story.. I was hurt and I was upset and I know that he knows that I love my mum too much to talk like that so he should have at least heard me and then tried to explain me.. But his blunt reply and insensitive reaction just drew me apart.. I am upset about his reaction and my mum's behaviour.. Both..

When would people understand me and know me.. While all claim to know me way too nicely..

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