It was the fresher's party...

26th August 2009
Wednesday

It was the fresher's party today and we all were going.. I have been to my fresher's party and it wasn't a very good experience, so I missed the fresher's the consecutive years but now as soon as Neha asked me, I happily agreed!! I would hardly say no to a dear friend.. The previous night is always a chaotic one as we keep on discussing the plan to prevent chaos but we still find ourselves in the middle of it every time we go out..

The previous evening I had been out with my friends some of whom I were meeting for the first time after college, but I could feel the anxiety of the following day even then!! I received a call from Neha when I had just arrived at the mall to meet my friends and told her that I would talk to her later.. As we sat there and chatted, the fact that I were going to the Fresher's did crop up once or twice showing the amount of anxiety to prevent chaos.. No matter how hard you try, you can never make a plan or outing without its last minutes hick ups!! :D

After reaching back home, I had started to device out the plan of action for tomorrow.. I first called Neha to tell her the timings and the time to reach and I also told her that her passes are with me, so she should reach on time.. I later called Shona to tell her the same plan all over again.. Later got a call from Shilpa telling me the time by which we must start off from here to reach the destination in the designated time.. Oh GOD!! I hate it when you have to co-ordinate between so many people.. Then called Neha again to tell her the time by which I want her there.. I don't understand why do girls use their little brain so much.. I don't use mine so often.. I do what I am told to, but others use their brain and plan accordingly.. I just don't get why my friends don't do what I ask them to and not use their own brains..

Well, you guessed it right she was LATE!!! yes, I hate it when someone is late.. I hate people who make me wait and show up late!! I sometimes feel like returning the honours!! Feel like making them wait for an entire lifetime before showing up again!! She just makes me so damn mad!! Never ever reaches on time.. She just gets on my nerves every time she does so.. I have waited for her for almost an hour every time I go out with her, she would never ever start on time and would always give stupid explanations.. I don't get why she has to spoil my mood every time we go out by showing up late.. Moreover, things are changing between us.. I feel so.. She is very sensitive so I try to keep it like it were but, its not the same..

Any how, as I waited for her, I let out my frustration by blaring out to her on the phone.. Told her to come as late as she pleased, because I am a fool waiting for her, forever... I just feel like walking away sometimes.. Anyways, she finally arrived and I didn't talk to her.. I was the one who was waiting.. I have always been waiting for her outside places, on roads and even at stops and stations!! So she deserves cold treatment for a few minutes at least.. What say?

Anyways, I could see she was too upset [too smart to make that puppy face and that makes me melt and Manu too asked me to forgive her as she would cry if I continue like that].. I gave in .. What can you do in front of a woman about to shed tears.. Huh, the most powerful devised by gals.. I seldom use it myself, but I am often blackmailed with the powerful display of this device!!

So we finally spoke and hugged and I warned her that this was the last time [I know this wasn't the last time, though its good for the time being][;)].. So as she complained about the music being too loud and decided to just sit in one corner table in the disc, I was so damn sick that I needed a shouting!! Well, I moved on to let my other friends know I am in now.. As she continued to throw tantrums, I found myself another company and repented the moment I decided to come here with her.. I, deep down inside, knew she would do this, yet I happily agree to whatever she says.. Never ever let your friend to do this to you.. Anyways, I love to praise her and loath her at the same time, this is what you call love.. You love to hate them and hate to love them, but just don't think of leaving them..!!

Back to track, I like to enjoy and let my hair down when I am out and out to have fun.. So I moved on the dance floor to find a group of enthusiastic known faces that I can join.. I spotted Kriti and moved closer, the group had immense energy and was receptive.. They were welcoming and I didn't feel like an unwanted and unwelcomed addition, so I joined in.. As we warmed up a bit, we were swaying to the beats and were complementing each other's moves.. It was getting to be one hell lot of a dance and we moved on the floor to a better suited place where we could just unwind.. I insisted Neha, Manu and Shona to join in and soon I found myself matching up with the two opposite dance groups that lied to each other at 180 degree phase shift..[:D]
I love to add some science to everything...[;)]

So I would just turn by 180 degrees to get from super energetic, swaying, body wave forming and belly dancing group to a low energy just tapping group and dancing accordingly to fit in.. I were shaking and belly dancing in one group to just hopping from side to side in another..[:D]

It was hell lot of fun.. The Dancing lights, the pumping deafening music and the maddening crowd.. It was all I hoped for minus the bad I expected from my previous experience.. Maybe the bad was missing because I was a senior or maybe more sophisticated people were around, whatever be it, but it wasn't that bad..

I enjoyed the Fresher's get to know a few more people from my college there.. I hardly know people in my college.. I love to keep to myself and my comfort zone, so this letting go once in a while adds to your circle.. So as I got to know Kriti's and Shilpa's groups, I think there are a few more people I can gel with..[:)]