What I was wondering for quite sometime is why do guys say that girls talk a lot.. Are the guys dumb? Without connection between their brains and their tongue to channelise their thoughts and utter them as words? Or are they not sure of the way their thought process is??
Lets not get so rude here.. I am called 'Rude' by many a guys.. So lets not try to raise this issue here too.. But what I wonder is why do they categorize us as Chatterbox while they too utter the same number of words per day.. I read it in newspaper that a recent study by a London university has concluded that.. Then why are the ladies blamed for being too talkative?
Even worse, we are shown as someone you shouldn't trust with a secret to be closely guarded while studies also show that guys gossip more than gals.. Though by only a small margin, but they are the winners, so why are we put to feel we are not someone to tell a secret to?? Many a times I hear a very amazing saying.. It goes like this, if you want to spread a piece of information in no time, tell it to a woman and the entire town would know of it before the break of dawn..[:(]
What my point is that whenever I talk to a guy, they want me to do all the talking.. They hardly speak, just try to start a topic and let me take over and in the end some very cutely, naughtily and purposely say that you talk a lot, while others become too adventurous by saying - 'All this while they waited for me to shut up!!'!! [The former still have a chance but the later are to get the worse of me..[;)]] Oh my God!! I wonder and take a vow to speak less the next time I meet them and make them feel how rude of them it was to say so in the first place..[:D]
When I do as I vowed to do, they complain that I am not speaking at all and some even ask if everything is alright and am I not feeling well or is it something that is disturbing me? I don't talk to people I feel aren't receptive and we can't connect on any level.. Yes, there are people I can't go well with.. I just don't speak to them, just complete the social obligations and move on.. For others who matter I tell, its you who wanted me to speak less and they take back there words and I still cautiously talk as less as possible..
Its fun to see how guys want us to do all the talking and later make fun of the fact that we speak so much.. Well its we who make a conversation interesting so next time guys, think before you blame us for being so avid speakers..[;)]
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